DV in the Arts, part 7: Family Portrait by Pink

Kids are a part of domestic violence that is sometimes set aside. "They didn't see it, so it doesn't hurt them" is a sentiment that's common, ignoring the fact that even if they weren't in the room, they still see the signs. This song addresses family disfunction, emotional trauma and a child's desperate plea for a family that's intact and stable. And, because we're in the Holiday season, I thought a song from a child's perspective would be appropriate.

Family Portrait is a hauntingly honest portrayal of childhood trauma. Through its vulnerable lyrics and emotional delivery, Pink transforms her personal pain into a song that speaks to millions who have lived through similar family struggles.

Kids get injured typically due to their willingness to get in-between a parent in trouble and an abuser because they often feel responsible for fixing things. This burden stays with them, buried in their memories- and sometimes, in their scars.

This work originated from a poem Pink wrote at age 9, when her parents divorced. When she was 21, she transposed it into a song that became one of her most personal tracks-

one that reflected experiences her listeners had in similar situations. Have a listen here.